Sunday 26 August 2018

Every dog and his day


It was a wet dog walk this morning. But we did it anyway, Bertie finds it tricky to be good all morning if he doesn't have a proper early gallop along the stream and over the green. We bumped into a cockapoo chum, and her person told us it was National Dog Day. It seems that almost every day is National something or other day, but after a year and a bit of dog ownership I think dogs do probably deserve their own day.

The above picture is one of the most recent I have of the Bertster. He puts a huge amount of effort into trying to keep his pack together and safe, and watching them heading out into the surf is a bit disconcerting. We spent many hours on beaches last week, and he didn't sit down on the job once, he was constantly on the go, checking up on us, making sure he knew where we were and rounding us up from time to time.

After dark he barks at outdoor noises, making sure they don't come in and attack us, whatever they may be. On a walk he tries to be fierce and brave when the situation requires, even though he's really a meek, submissive little chap and often lies down when a big dog approaches. In fact he lives in constant fear of a very bouncy labradoodle that rolled him over by accident once. But despite being scared, he gives it all his best shot.

I don't think I really understood the dog/human bond until Bertie came along. Everyone in the house has their own relationship with him, their own games and routines and fun things to do, and their own moment curled up on the sofa with him and his unconditional love.

He is always thrilled to see me; dog-owning friends will no doubt understand that. If I pop out to the postbox, about a minute away, he greets me when I get back with pure ecstasy, as if I've been gone for a week. When he's not being adorable he chews the washing, the cushions and the rug. He gets under our feet and in the way and is constantly on the lookout for unattended food. If he gets hold of something he's not supposed to have, he won't come back. He finds it a great game that he's initiated, with the whole family trying to catch him and him outwitting us all.

He makes sure I get plenty of exercise every day and he's made us a member of the dog walking fraternity, where everyone says hello and often stops for a chat. I've reconnected with old friends and made new ones, just by having a dog by my side. I've spent more time in the countryside than ever before, which everyone knows is good for the soul, especially for someone who works at home.

He loves it when we really concentrate on him, asking him to do things and communicating with us. Sometimes he doesn't get it, and puts his head on one side and tries and tries to understand us. If we had a conversation, he would probably say, I'd like more sausages please, let me come and sleep on your bed and don't ever go anywhere without me, ever, please.

Happy National Dog Day Bertie, I hope we don't disappoint.

15 comments:

  1. I'm glad your family has understood the joy of dogs! I cannot imagine living my life without at least one dog by my side <3 The love and happiness they give you is priceless!

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  2. So sweet. I had a dog when I was a child, but it's been cats for the past 30 years. We have two now, sisters, 12 years old. I've warned my husband that when both cats are gone, I want to get a dog. I will give it a few months to make sure I want the responsibility of a pet again, but if there is to be another pet, it will be a dog. I like cats and they can be excellent companions, but I want a dog for all the reasons you state--going for walks, getting outside, meeting people. Both of my children are grown now. It used to be the children who forced me out on walks and out of the house and into situations where I met people. Now I will need a dog to keep me active and social!

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  3. It sounds as if Bertie has brought such joy to your family. We love Hamish to bits, but you can't really take him on a walk - well you could (he does have a harness for romps in the garden), but he'd probably end up as a tasty snack for some of our local pooches! I'll just have to live my doggy life vicariously through you and 'The Bertster'! xx

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  4. I love this post. You know I had a fierce love for my Max, and these boys of mine are no different. They have completely different personalities and are just so thrilled with life. The love fiercely, each and every one of us. They can be wrestling around looking like they are about to kill each other and then stop and give each other a smooch and a nuzzle. They are the best. Hi to Bertie!

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  5. Your Bertie sounds like a great companion. I don't have any pets at present but am nanna to a Cavoodle who is the other love of my life. Banjo gets so excited to see me once a week when I pick up the grandchildren from school and take them home. Banjo follows me everywhere and then sits on me and stares into my eyes like a lovesick teenager! He gets jealous if my dear husband sits next to me and almost ignores the grandchildren. Dogs seem to know more than we do sometimes.

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  6. I so relate to this ,--- loyal best friend x

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  7. Yes, there are times when Jack is my favourite member of the family. Always happy to see me, unconditional love and no demands I cannot meet. No dirty laundry either apart from a towel or two used to rub him dry. Happy days! x

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  8. A lovely tribute to your boy. They give us so much don’t they? I wouldn’t do the amount of walking I do everyday without t and p, and I would not have done my first marathon without pops running all those miles by my side in training. They are beyond special xx

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  9. Such a wonderful post that perfectly sums up the human/dog relationship. That unconditional love and utter glee at greeting you makes up for all their naughty pranks. Hector loves to steal things he shouldn't have just to make us all chase him!

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  10. Lovely post which perfectly sums up the relationship between us and dogs. It's one of my few regrets that I've never had a dog. xx

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  11. I have a friend who was late to the dog owning community and she said she never really understood how important a dog becomes to its owners until she got one herself.

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  12. Dear CJ, to own a pet is to have a special friend. There have been times in my life when I have preferred the company of a pet to that of a human. Bertie is so special and we enjoy his activities in a vicarious way. Thanks for sharing him. Please give him a pat from me. Regards, Robyn

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  13. Such a gorgeous loyal friend. Belated Happy National Dog Day to Bertie!

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  14. I really enjoyed your stories about your fur boy. I think he's made a wonderful extra layer of joy to all of your lives and I'm happy that you found the perfect dog for all of you. My daughter and granddaughters are also loving their pup named Honey. They waited so very long for their dad to give them his okay for the dog. ((hugs)), Teresa :-)

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  15. Ahhhh, such a lovely post. Bertie sure is a part of all your lives now. They have a habit of worming their way into our hearts....xxx

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